I (18M) came over to my gfs (18F) house today…and we knew we would have sex.
We have had sex only once before (which was our first time) and i was rlly looking forward for today. the problem was i had masturbated yesterday for 2-3 times and i knew i wouldnt cum faster. We started with some foreplay and oral sex…and wen she went to give me a head, i couldnt come. I had to give myself a handjob to cum coz it was taking a lot of time and as soon as i cummed on her i told her to suck it. My dick was hard enough and wen i went ahead to put on the condom, it became a little soft…and i told her to suck on it again and it was hard again but by the time i could put the condom it was a bit soft again…and for some reason the condom wouldnt fit me even if i was hard.
at the end, we didnt have sex and i was rlly embarassed. she said it was ok but i didnt think this would have happened to me. And i dont have any problem, i dont have ED or anything and i have been doing a much better job at not masturbating but yesterday i rlly crossed the line.
I feel rlly bad from inside and idk wat to do..i cant concentrate on my studies either.
P.S – the condom was kept in a drawer for about 3-4 months. does this have anything to do with it not being able to fit?
3 comments
Pretty simple, just don’t masturbate. Make her hands, her mouth, and her pussy the only source of stimulation for your penis. That way you’ll keep it under control.
You already diagnosed the problem at the start. Just reduce the frequency of masturbating. Practice meditative techniques to keep your urges under control, and you will be fine. Don’t beat yourself up about it. It was one slip and you’ll be fine next time as long as you practice self control.
It’s all good….sex is like becoming a Jedi, just keep learning and practicing.