[20F] started talking to this guy [20M] (who I had been acquaintances with for three years) only for the last week and our messaging has increased to an insane amount – multiple times a day (amount of texts generated is 10x amount of my best friends). At first it was nice but now I’m just feeling like I’m being interrogated/feel overwhelmed. Was involved with a controlling guy a year ago and I’m worried the situation will pan out like that but maybe I’m just paranoid? Any advice?
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There’s no way we can know with this context alone. What’s he saying?
Just tell him. “Hey Person, I’m enjoying getting to know you but the sheer number of texts and all the questions is getting overwhelming. Let’s dial back on the texting?”
How he responds will tell you a lot about him.
Sounds like he’s just trying to get to know you lol