My partner and I live separately but when we spend the night together it’s at their place. We’ve been together for a year now and have sleepovers about once or twice a week. Every other sleepover if not every time, when we’re ready for bed they will go in the other room to jack off. They masturbate every day as it is and i judge them for not being able to skip the one night im with them. I love going to bed together and watching videos, joking and cuddling together until we fall asleep, but when they go off to the other room i just fall asleep and feel upset. I just don’t get it, like you can’t skip one night to spend quality time with me? Should I bring it up or am i being silly?
edit: we don’t have sex often, bc they don’t want to, but i’ve expressed wanting to have it more often. .
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Have you asked if you can help?