The guy i hook up with did not cum?

8 comments

1. No, it means he didn’t cum.

2. There’s about 20 reasons this could be (ED, Anxiety, Meds he’s on, him getting in his head about something, recreational drugs, drink, and a fuckton more).

   Almost all of them have one thing in common: they have nothing to do with you.

   If he got it up and you banged, he was in to it (and you.)

3. Did you finish tho?

4. My bf has neurological scaring, he can go hours unless specified things are done.

5. I know kind of a bummer but as long as you guys had fun.

6. If you enjoyed it, ask him back again. If he comes back, then he enjoyed it.

7. He could be nervous too. Happens to me the first few times with someone

8. For what it’s worth, I **rarely** cum the first time I’m with someone. I just get nervous about being a good partner and the part of my brain where I’m supposed to climax goes out the window. I still enjoy it tremendously, though.