I (23f) want to treat my bf (23m) to something special for valentine’s day. I specifically want to do something sexual that explicitly focuses on him.
I regularly give him oral, both rough and gentle. He doesn’t like any anal or ass play on his end so no pegging or rimming or prostate play is in the picture at the moment. I also regularly will wear lingerie and/or stocking. We do use some bondage and handcuffs, mainly on me.
I will be wearing some lingerie and stockings for v-day, but if y’all have any ideas that focus on him, let me know! I want it to be special for the day since it’s the first time we’ll be celebrating together!
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You can try the kinks he likes mostly.
Ask him some vague questions that could get him to open up about several sexual fantasies and then pick one that sounds fun to you as well.
Start with a long sensual full body massage, near the end focusing on his dick and balls, then slowly ease into a blow job. That would be pretty focused on him đ
First of all, you sound like a very sweet, considerate, and giving partner. If both of you are like this that is a huge green flag.
I (22,M) canât speak for your boyfriend specifically, but I and a lot of men I have spoken to love enthusiasm from our partners. Whatever you decide to do for Valentineâs Day, it would be even better if you use your words and body language to communicate how much you really want him.
Other than that, I would say do whatever his kink is to the extent that you are comfortable.
You say you want to âfocus on him physicallyâ youâve probably thought of these, but off the top of my head: here are a few things that focus on one partner giving pleasure to the other:
-blowjobs
-handjobs
-foot jobs
-have him dry hump you
-Jack off instruction (JOI) (Alternatively, some people love having their partner make out with them and show them a lot of love and affection while they masturbate and are verbally encouraged to do so.)
-titty-fucking (if you donât know itâs when a man puts his penis in and out of a womanâs cleavage. You can aim it in a way so that he cums on your face if the two of you are into that.)
-Use a toy on him
-Bring a third person into the bedroom and have both of you please him. (I suspect this is probably not your or your boyfriends thing but I figured I would put it out there anyway.)
Another idea is an anytime he wants “use of your body” fun day. I have done this before with my GF, its a when ever and what ever he wants to do to you day. I enjoyed it very much
Get Boudoir photos done and give them to him.
Give him a lap dance
I love how you said â at the momentâ đđ trooper
You could try those lozenges that make you salivate.
Have him lay on his back and give him a pussyjob đ
You could spice up the blow job by adding whipped cream or ice to increase stimulation.
Put on some music and give him a lap dance.
Or tie him up and give him a private show by showing of lingerie or masturbating in front of him. You can tease him with a sensual blow job and edge him on. Then let him have you any way he wants when he canât take it anymore.