Wife using dildo bothers me?

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1. You’re tripping. Nothing wrong with using sex toys, they’re tools to make a given and otherly timely task easier. Would you want your wife to get mad at ya for using hammers and drills and do that all manually?

   >Occasionally when my Wife gets mad at me she will use a dildo that is slightly girthier than me.

   Does she say anything about the toy being girthier than you? I think its more likely thats an insecurity from red pill culture that a reason she uses it. Or that she gets off on her own as some passive aggressive act. I think she just needs to relieve some stress and wants to do it alone sometimes.

2. This is a you problem, not a her problem. It is absolutely the same as jerking off.

   The only time you’d have a valid claim would be if she made it a pattern of choosing the dildo over sex with you. Other than that, it’s literally none of your business and you need to choose to set this nonsense aside.

3. This is like her saying “he sometimes uses his hand which is tighter than my pussy” – do you see how that sounds when you turn it around?

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5. This isn’t a toy problem. She has a humiliation kink that you’ve become a part of.

6. Nothing wrong with her using a toy that bigger than you and enjoying it.

   But she only does it when she’s mad at you? Also how do you know when she uses it? Is she making a point of telling you? Cause that seems abusive, like she is trying to punish you by shaming you. I wouldn’t stick around for that kind of dynamic

7. If she’s throwing it your face I could see why it would bother you but if she just jilling off then you’re tripping

8. She most likely has a kink —explore it together and see what happens.

9. no youre not trippin i also come out happier and more satisfied with a dildo

10. There’s nothing wrong with her using dildos, there is something very wrong with her belittling you afterwards. That’s just straight up bullying.

11. I don’t think you’re trippin’. If it was just about the dildo being bigger than you or that you just don’t like your wife using toys, I would say it’s just insecurity on your part, but you also say that afterwards she loves to “talk shit about how a rubber dick can satisfy her more than I can” and that she only does this when she’s mad. It’s not okay for her to demean you in that way just because she’s upset.

12. Your trippin…get over it!

13. If you wrote this without “when my wife gets mad at me”, you would absolutely be trippin’. But if she is using it to make you feel badly that is seriously fucked up.

14. Hot. Great wife.

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16. I think your over thinking it. There’s nothing wrong with her using dildos that are bigger or thicker. She has her needs that she’s got to satisfy. Sometimes your cock will do, other times her big dildo will do, or other times it’s her vibrator will do. I have a wide variety of toys that I use based off my mood and my husband knows that sometimes his cock doesn’t do it for me. He’s perfectly fine with this and encourages me doing what I need to satisfy myself.

17. Why is it any time this subject comes up the guy is told to just get over it?

18. Man up brother and throw that thing to here. It’s not your enemy it’s your partner in crime. She’s gonnna cheat if you don’t and then your left alone

19. Using the sex toy isn’t a issue. Her insulting you and your size is the red flag 🚩.

20. If she’s using this to throw it in your face that it is absolutely manipulation narcissism. Next time she does it get a gigantic blowup doll see how she feels.