What makes someone a true “catch” in your eyes?

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1. 1. Her beautiful smile is the first thing you notice about her
   2. She’s in tune with your emotions, and knows how to calm you down if you’re upset
   3. She’s willing to do anything for you to keep you happy, just as you are for her
   4. The sex is top-tier
   5. You feel loved by her constantly
   6. She’s there when you need her, always.
   7. You see a future with them, and they see one with you.

2. – She’s equally enthusiastic about blow jobs the first time as the 50000th time.

   – Brings up conflicts calmly and can be vulnerable rather than combative.

   – Doesn’t expect much / low maintenance

   – She doesn’t try to change me. She loves me, and appreciates me as I am.

   – Emotionally stable

   – Trustworthy

   – Likes to keep her body looking healthy

3. Wow that’s amazing question . Catching takes time and skill.If Im being honest, I feel like it’s somewhere between misery’s company and a great nap . Where time flies and disagreements end with “what were we arguing about “…every single thing that makes you happy , angry…. Loyalty plus betrayal….equals value. Training in acceptance of love…unconditionally devoted to making sure that we are willing to follow through on our promises by seeing he’ll and heaven unfold simultaneously….that’s my precise babble….thx for the reminder

4. – Is perfectly comfortable taking care of theirself (I don’t know the right word)
   – Is able to have tough conversations
   – Has a passion for something
   – Is kind to strangers
   – Aligning values
   – Has a sense of humor
   – Doesn’t take theirself too seriously
   – Enjoys my sense of humor
   – Is a bit more serious/reserved (I am a human golden retriever)
   – Is a bit more goofy and extroverted (I am also told I am a human black cat) so either or
   – They have a healthy social circle
   – Sexually compatible, no vanilla life
   – They are an active member in their community
   – Cute smile is always nice too

5. – self sufficient & ambitious, constantly working on their goals and moving forward in their life
   – empathetic, emotionally intelligent, kind
   – able to communicate well
   – knows what they want in a relationship and understands that relationships take work
   – pays attention to things their partner likes or appreciates and does them without being asked
   – shows love and respect to their partner
   – is physically attractive to their partner
   – supports and encourages partner to follow their dreams
   – understands that a partnership is 50/50 but sometimes is 60/40 or even 80/20 at times because life can bring ups and downs and requires compromise
   – willingness to work on themselves and grow as an individual and a couple

6. Someone who shows any affection or intrest.

7. Basic human decency. If they lack it…gone

8. I would say it depends if it’s a man or woman.
   Because men look for certain things or put more emphasis on certain things, and women look for different things in men.

   – she respects you and acts like it (aka doesn’t just say it)
   – sex is good, and not weaponize or dolled out as treats for special occasions
   – low maintenance
   – doesn’t bring drama to me
   – can communicate like a grown up when something is the matter or on her mind
   – our lifestyles align
   – the way I want to be loved doesn’t ever seem like to much for her and vice versa
   – she takes care of her body and doesnt let herself pack on tons of weight
   – doesn’t wear makeup or barely any
   – not materialistic
   – loyal
   – trustworthy
   – emotionally stable
   – willing to take accountability (really difficult one to find)
   – capable and willing to do basic human life tasks that we will both do (laundry, cooking, dishes, etc)
   – must love dogs

9. Their ability to give and take, wit and Sarcasm