Oh wow look another post asking about orgasming too quick, I know I know, it’s repetitive but I don’t really know where else to turn.
All my life up to the past couple of months, I’ve had awesome, earth-shattering orgasms masturbating solo. I don’t use toys or anything fancy, just me and my fingers. I haven’t even fingered myself, I’m just content with my easy-to-reach-areas.
However, in the past few months I’ve found that I’m reaching orgasm within minutes of touching myself (when preciously it takes a bit of time.) I wouldn’t consider this a problem except for the fact that the orgasm I do reach is… lame. I used to have crazy good orgasms that I felt satisfied with, but now all I get is a mildly pleasurable feeling and sometimes I wonder if I’ve even orgasmed at all. Like my body acts like it just had an orgasm, but it feels.. just lame!
I’m not taking new medication, and I’ve tried a lot of different things. I’ve experimented with ways of touching myself and my other zones, I’ve tried giving myself second/multiple orgasms but it just feels uncomfortable and isn’t really my thing currently, and I’ve tried edging but even with a lot of edging I still can’t grasp the orgasms I desire. I only really masturbate when horny, so I doubt it’s because I’ve been doing it too much or turned off my sex drive.
It may be important to note I have a history of rape from a very young age (around 6 years old,) but I doubt it’s because of that.
If anyone has a possible explanation or idea as to what I can do to prolong my masturbation and improve my orgasms, I’d be extremely grateful!