I’m usually a bottom but he likes it when I’m on top riding him like a cowgirl.
I’m hella insecure about my body and my “performance” when I ride him. He says I have nothing to worry about but I feel irritated on top because I feel like I’m doing it wrong. Any experts got advice for me?

3 comments

  1. Relax..
    And you can lean back a little, put your hands on his thighs. And just move your hips, grind, or up and down slowly. You can lean forward, then u can kiss…
    If you’re self conscious, ( I still do this) wear a button down shirt, and just button it at your belly. Honestly,. Men who are into u will not see u the way we see ourselves. I am self conscious also.. so the shirt helps, and it can be sexy. You can do reverse cowgirl. Then he can look at your booty and you won’t have to worry so much about how u think u look.
    Personally, I love sitting on his lap, face forward, on the sofa!! You’re closer. And that worrying about how u may look, doesn’t really come to mind.
    Just relax! You got this. Put some good music on and pretend you are at the best dance club ever, and just move your hips❤️

  2. If he says you’re doing a good job, then all you need to fix is your mindset so you enjoy it equally. Feel sexy, look at your partner and the way he looks at you, like he wants to take you. Feel somewhat in control and move your hips. Listen to your own body, let your movements happen naturally and you’ll find pleasure in it too. Hope that helps!

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