How do you feel about getting zero attention from men for the rest of your life ?

14 comments

1. I’d be cool with that.

2. Like they’ll never acknowledge me? No thanks. I have male relatives, male friends, a male partner.

   Zero **sexual** attention? Still no, I obviously still want my partner to find me desirable.

   I just wanna be seen as a person, rather than a potential fuck toy.

3. In certain circumstances… incredibly happy!

   In general, no big deal

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6. The only kind of male attention I’ve ever gotten has been relentless bullying and mocking at school over my looks and weight, and that one time last year I was on vacation in Italy and a middle-aged man in a motorbike checked me out and made a crude gesture while sticking his tongue out. So yeah, considering my experiences, I’d be perfectly fine with the prospect of not getting any more of it.

7. That would be very sad. I’m solely attracted to men. I also value friendship from men that I’m not attracted to.

   That said, this question smells a lot like a “gotcha” question.

8. Like, completely ignored by 50% of people? A horrible thing.

9. I’m cool with it.

10. Well, I’d like to meet a partner… so I’m not sure how I feel about it. I don’t really get a lot of attention currently unless I’m falling down or tripping; in social events, men aren’t drawn to me and barely show interest in staying in touch so I guess I pretty much get zero attention. I feel a bit disappointed sometimes as I’d like to be more interesting.

11. It’s not a huge change but would still annoy me.

12. Absolutely amazing. Opens up a lot of travel destinations without careful planning, and I’ve already had more than my share of male attention in my life.

    Buuuuut, if this includes my husband, then no deal

13. I’ve never received a second of attention from a man, and I feel terrible that that’s how I’m gonna live the rest of my life. It’d be nice and very motivating to at least feel attractive to and desired by someone every now and then, not just be one of the guys all the time.

14. Many have behaved disgustingly towards me since I was eleven, and I quickly became indifferent towards their attention, so I would continue not to care.