Ironically, I have freed myself from texting anxiety by telling myself they were never gonna love me anyway. Asking myself questions like “what do I have to lose? What are they gonna do? Not like me? They were never gonna like me! What am I losing? My *chance* with them? There was no chance! Why not just text him because I want to!” And you know, that way I at least have fun with it. If that makes any sense?