TL:DR : I wanna apologize to my girlfriend in-person after saying something that traumatized her but i don’t know how to approach her
I said something that traumatized my girlfriend and now she’s afraid of talking to me, i didn’t mean to traumatize her and i really regret saying that, i left her alone for 2 weeks after she said she’ll talk to me when she’s ready. it’s been a while now and i forgot something to tell her, it was a reminder that i will always wait for her til she’s ready to talk to me and i love her, i quickly messaged her it but after few minutes of her seeing the message, she responds with “I hate you” i was shocked and didn’t know what to say. its been 5 days and i really wanna apologize to her in-person but i don’t know how to ask her. Should i just wait for her til she’s ready or go and ask her when is she ready to talk so i could go to her in-person and apologize
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I suspect that she’s no longer your girlfriend.
Sounds like you fucked up in an unforgivable way
If she’s ever ready she will reach out to you. Until then, let it go – she doesn’t want anything to do with you. No reminder messages, no surprise visits, no gifts sent to her house, nothing. Leave her alone. Go get a hobby or volunteer somewhere to keep you busy. If she never comes back, at least you have a new skill set.