I have this really shit nerdy voice which sounds awful. I know people dont like the sound of their voice, but in my case I’ve had some people actually make fun of the way I speak sometimes
It’s like this nasal voice that comes out and makes me sound like I’m stupid. I literally cant be taken seriously at all and get aired alot of times because of it.
Even if I speak from my chest or diaphragm it still comes out really shitty. Please, anyone teach me how to get a normal voice. It doesnt even have to be deep or seductive or anything, I just want a normal voice man
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Theres nothing you can do about it.
Wishing it wasnt so isnt going to make it so.
Theres not a single man or woman who is fully content with themselves and doesnt wish there was something about them that they could change. For me its height lol, can I do something or change it? No.
Will I maybe get mocked belittled and made fun of or not considered a dating prospect due to it, sure.
But it’s out of my control therefore a waste of time and energy wishing it wasnt so, and the people who do make fun of you are always people who arent happy with something about themselves, it gives them an easy Avenue to ridicule or mock someone else for whatever reason because it makes them feel better about themselves or feeling normal and to fit in.
It’s also possible that you’ve just been focused on the negatives and you’re more self conscious about it. Theres probably more people who arent concerned with your voice at all but the few who have is why you’ve stressed your importance on it.
Your voice is unique.its yours own it, and the people who make fun of it screw them, they’re not perfect beings either and wish they could change something about themselves, dont place their opinions in high regards because remember the only thing theyve done by making fun you is mask how something they feel something is messed up about themselves.
Value yourself, be yourself, others dont like it screw them they dont care for u , feed u, provide for u.
Take care, hope I’ve been of some help.
It sounds like you’re feeling like there’s an imbalance between the size and weight of your voice. These are definitely things you can change, but it takes some practice.
Check out [this video](https://youtu.be/a0PpzrWsTUE) that talks about differences in weight to get an idea of what this is all about.
This particular channel is primarily focused on helping trans people modify their voices, but the concepts are the same that you’d use to develop a lot of other voices, anywhere from a deep and full “announcer” voice, to a weird cartoony voice. What you’re looking for is probably a fairly small change by comparison so it’ll be less of an effort than a lot of other changes.