I don’t know what to do Ive talked with him and I’m glad i did.
but everyone thinks we are screwing each other senseless. I wish we did.
I envy my best friend because she has quality time with her fwb
She envies me because im in a relationship with a wonderful human
I feel guilty when i take too long to orgasm
Could it be my fault? Am i too boring? When I get on top
erection goes away?
Am I asking too much? We never had this spark going on even in the beginning
Sex is boring
im sad
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Not sure why but a trip to a urologist might help
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Maybe he can’t breathe
I’m gonna tell you up front I highly doubt it’s your fault stop blaming yourself
M here..Faced same issues..
Talk to him if he has any anxiety or any mental issues specially regarding performance..Talk about his fantasies,take it slow, try to bring the beast out of him..
This worked for me.. Hopefully that’ll work for you as anxiety is the main issue when it comes to sexual performance…
Also, working out and pelvic floor exercises do charms too..
Sounds like porn addiction and death grip
How much do you you weigh and what do you look like? If you’re a cow you could be crushing him. But if youre in shape and he’s just got a limp dick…get rid of him. Life’s too short to be sad over bad sex
Could be a mental thing. When I married my husband, for the first few weeks/months things were really good. But after some time, even tho he wanted to be intimate, he couldn’t stay up for a long time. He had some previous trauma and talking about them helped out a lot. Communication is so important in figuring out what’s going through their mind when they’re being intimate and maybe what you can do to keep their focus on you.
Definitely not your fault and probably not even his fault. Sit down and talk about it. Someone else mentioned death grip which is a thing or past trauma, but y’all won’t know till it’s talked out. Y’all could even get with a licensed sex therapist to figure out more ways to be physically intimate!