Hi, I have recently stopped drinking, as I am trying to lose weight. This has let to a lot of parties I went to being boring, as less people were drinking. Because I have a high tolerance, I was often used as the go to person to get people hyped up and also to drink some shot here or there, start the drinking game, play some beer pong. As I am not doing it anymore, it doesn’t hit the same anymore. People keep more to themselves and are less motivated, often ending in early nights instead of going to the clubs after the pregaming. And it’s not, cause I don’t want to. I try to keep the mood up and have fun without alcohol. Nothing new to me, being the sober one as my high tolerance hasn’t often left me to be drunk before. How can I get the motivation and the vibe back to the old vines, without me being forced to drink to do that? Is there something I can do ? Any advice would be great!