What to do in lingerie??

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1. Under clothes is probably the safest bet.

   When my ex was in that mood she’d often have it on underneath but make it crystal clear to me only, because she knew it wound me up. But the surprise was equally as good.

   In terms of what to do once the doors closed, don’t overthink it, just see what happens!

   Don’t know about your partner but I’d pretty much jump on her when she did that stuff so she didn’t need to worry about doing much!

2. One way to think about lingerie is to think of it as *an amazing gift wrap*. As in, you wear it to present something (you!) as good as possible.

   Which means that just wearing lingerie is by itself an offering of an adventure.

   And, yes. Wearing lingerie underneath a non-revealing layer of clothing adds to the effect; it’ll be more of a surprise when it’s presence ain’t revealed until you start to toss clothes around next to the bed.

   Think a bit. Is there a specific piece that he speaks more fondly of after receiving pictures of you in it? Can you wear a blouse or something that (tastefully) kind of hints at what you are wearing underneath?

   > Do I just wait for him to take it off me or what?

   If you want to.

   You can also deliberately keep it on longer just to tease him. Cuddling in just your underwear is more than usual of an adventure if you also wear some pieces that he most definitely wants to look closer at…

3. I love when I know that my wife has lingerie on under her clothes! And then later, in the bedroom, sometimes we just hang out with her in lingerie, talking, listening to music….

4. I’d try to find some stuff that can stay on during. Thigh highs with garters for example. Given the idea is you’re going to have sex and he seems to like them.

5. Wear it with the same confidence you have in photos. Wear it under your clothes to hide it and then reveal it to your boyfriend. Keep it on during sex…it’s fucking hot.