I’ve recently had my first intimate time with my current GF, which I’ve been dating for a couple months now, and it was the first time I’ve ever felt pain by having sex with a girl.
I’ve weared a condom with lubrificant, so I expected it to slide in pretty eaily like it always did. This wan’t the case. The penetration got painful for me because, while pushing, I’ve felt some kind of bone above the hole that made the penetration hard and painful, most of all on the top part of the penis. The pain eventually got less severe, but I cannot say I’ve enjoyed it.
She said she didn’t feel any pain and had a good time. But now I’m not sure if I wanna do it again. It was just not good for me, even if I managed to finish by myself. Should I just tell her and try to ask her why is it like this? I don’t know much about the anathomy of that part of bones, but I sure know it never happened to me before with any other girl I’ve been with. Is it normal?
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Well I wouldn’t ask her why it is like that. What is she supposed to do? She can’t change her anatomy.
Did you change positions? Maybe the angle didn’t work. Some positions work better than others, depending on the partner.
I wouldn’t give up on it after one time
I’ve never heard of that… could it maybe be some kind of foreign object? Maybe you could feel with your fingers and try to figure it out if she’s ok with fingering.