So basically i moved to Canada and so did my bestfriend(but to a different part of Canada) at the end of the summer. I broke up with my ex in the beginning of the summer. Ever since my bestfriend moved, he’s been talking to her nonstop and they text and chat the whole time and it’s apparently getting serious. I am not particularly jealous since i have absolutely no plans of getting back with her but it still feels weird for some reason especially since they are thousands of kilometers apart. I’ve already talked to him about this telling him that it’s not going anywhere but they are still “dating” and idk what i should do.
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If you are really not jealous, and you really broke up with her (assuming on decent terms) then it shouldn’t matter to you.
Don’t call the guy ur best friend. Don’t even call him a friend. A bf wouldn’t touch ur ex if they were trapped in a penthouse suite for a month and promised nobody would find out.
I think it’s a bit fucked up of your friend tbh but if you told him you were fine with it then you can’t really blame him.
If he is happy with it. Let him do as he please bro. Just because your relationship didnt work out that doesnt mean his wont too right. So let them be as if and if you are feeling uncomfortable about it move out from your friends place or dont talk about it ever again.
If he didnt ask you if it was cool beforehand, he’s not your best friend
Ignore it and get a move-on with your life. You’ve got more important/interesting things to worry about than your ex. Admire Canadian nature. Go for a joyride if you have the means. Arrange stuff in your room. See what your job is like when you give it full attention and be proud of your good work. Do some art. Your ex doesn’t matter. You do.
Just because you wouldn’t date his best friend doesn’t mean he won’t. You are in your right to feel a certain what but so is he. Once the relationship ends, it’s none of you concern really
What a snake 🐍