Oftentimes because I don’t want the conversation to die out, I will cue up things to discuss instead of really listening and engaging with the other person. I’ll then think of much better engaging things I could’ve said much later that would have led to a richer conversation. I think I need to be more mindful/present. Curious if you have any tips?
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Dialogue that extend what the other party is saying is more engaging and show that youre listening, so focus on giving replies that are relevant to what the other person says. Instead of thinking of what to say next/ how to change a topic, focus on responding to the same topic that is currently being discussed. You can’t do that unless you listen. Push through even if you can’t think of anything/ its awkward; its all experience. After a while, youll build a natural habit.