TL;DR: I want to try a bi MMF threesome with my fiancé and don’t know how to meet such a person.
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For context, I (M29) and fairly lost to bisexual. I’m not fully bi because I’d never want to date a guy, and honestly making out with a guy sounds terrible. I’m just really into a good looking penis 🤷🏼♂️
I’ve never been with a guy before, but was always very up front with my fiancé (F27) that I have bi MMF fantasies and sometimes like watching that porn with her. I was up front more just out of healthy communication and wanting her to know that about me more than hoping something would happen. She turned out to be very supportive of it, to the point I think she’s kind of into the idea.
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As time goes on it’s something I feel like I really want to try. Basically a MMF threeway with my fiancé and another bi guy. I told her this and she got really excited. But we aren’t really sure where to go next. I feel like it’s challenging to find someone who is a) bi b) someone I’m attracted to c) willing to do a 3 way.
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Wondering if anyone has succeeded here and can offer advice.
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Probably not the advice you’re looking for but… be really, 100%, no fucking doubt whatsoever sure this is what you both want. Some things should stay fantasies, and neither you or her can unfuck the guy once the deed is done.
Maybe some baby steps first? Like go out to a bar where you could flirt and make out while she observes. If everyone is still feeling okay after that consider going further.
I went to bumble.
Set up a couple profile with her name-your name. We made ours a female account. You might want male? Upload cute pictures of you two. ‘were a young couple for fun’ prompts’. And set your sexual preferences.
My gf and I are looking. We did this on Tuesday. She made the profile. Our sex is female, looking for female and non-binary. There are lots of bi men on non-binary. Less than 12 hours later there were 2 attractive bi women asking if they could potentially be a third. 3 days later we have 5 women asking, and all 5 started the conversation.
As a man, it seems harder to get a normal date from a woman on Bumble than it is to get a woman from Bumble to join in a couples threesome! So I can only imagine how easy it would be to get a guy to join you