I wanna make it clear to her that I will gladly eat her out for 30,45 even 60 minutes but I don’t wanna say things like “don’t worry if it takes a while for you to orgasm, I’ll enjoy it either way” because I don’t wanna create the expectation that she has to orgasm. it’s obviously my goal but no need to create pressure.
I ask for spontaneous hookups btw so not super easy to ask beforehand
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“I’m a slow eater”
Perhaps express your eagerness before and often during?
Perhaps a line sort of like a compliment on her vag followed by “I literally could eat you out all day/night long” – she could encourage or discourage at that point or after she’s “had enough” I’d think, but if it’s obvious you’re having fun and you have as much practice and dedication as it sounds like, then I’d think she wouldn’t worry about it too much.