I want to try tantric sex with my partner. I think we’d both benefit from it. We have a hard time building an emotional connection through verbal communication alone as we’ve both got past trauma and are a bit awkward/closed off which is often getting in the way of us.
Our relationship hit a really stale point a few months ago and we’ve been focusing on rekindling things, starting with our sex life. Which is going great. We both communicate better and feel more connected now we’re doing it more regularly.
I’ve been looking into tantric sex and feel that it might work as a kind of somatic healing experience for us both and a way to deepen our emotional connection and intimacy and help improve communication in the future. I’m quite into somatic healing for myself, I do TREs, energy healing, yoga etc so I feel it’s a natural step for me. He’s fairly open to trying but he’s completely new to anything like this.
Does anyone have any tips, advice, success stories?