I weigh ~190lbs at 5’11, definitely a larger looking guy (I work out and am not super lean) and I may look intimidating when people first meet me. The problem is that I really hate acting tough and completely apathetic, which I feel really clashes with people’s first impression of me.
I like being big-ish and not having to worry as much about being a target of physical violence, but I feel like a lot of girls in my area (Canada) are off-put by my mismatched “soft” personality and larger and stronger physical appearance.
Could this be true, or am I just convincing myself of something that’s not true?
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I bet you give the best hugs and the girls who don’t like it can go hug a twig. Wish I lived closer to get a massive soul crushing hug from you. Keep being your soft self because it’s a PLEASANT surprise when I meet people like you in my area and I absolutely adore it!