I started texting this girl who is a dom (I’m a sub) and she said “before we go too far I demand tribute as a sign of commitment”. What does that mean? I told her that I can’t give her money and she hasn’t gotten back to me. Is money what she was asking for or something else like me calling her mistress or touching myself to her?
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Is this dom a sex worker, or not a sex worker?
“Tribute” is sometimes used as a code word in sex work by escorts and dominatrixes (whatever the plural of that is) for payment to avoid breaking the law by openly charging for sexual services. Other phrases are “donation” and “roses”.
She a fake dom scamming for money. Delete her and don’t pay her a penny.
It sounds like you’re getting taken advantage of by a Findom. Male subs can be very easy to manipulate by someone well versed in using their kinks and submission. The fact that you said you had no money likely means she’s off to prey on someone else.
Most online dommes are just scammers dude.
Scam, scam, scam. Be VERY vigilant with dommes you meet online. You do not want to be in a position where you send money and now the scammer is blackmailing and extorting you for even more money
If she doesn’t communicate clearly then she is not a good dom 🚩 sub-dom relantionships should be very transparent from the beginning.
The real purpose of tribute is to remind the sub of the power dynamic particularly in binary female/male relations. If is an assertion of female supremacy and an acknowledgement of this by the male submissive.
Males are man whores in that they must work to provide. So pay up and shut up!
Send her an MP3 of the Tenacious D song “Tribute” and see how she responds
Get a pic of her, put it on an ipad or something, hell print it out if you have to.
Cum on it. Take a photo, and send it over to her
Cum-tribute
Done
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Genuine question here: What makes an online domme a scammer? If they are genuinely providing the service of domming (albeit virtually), is that not an exchange of service for money? I could see if they cut and run once they have the money but if they actually domme??
Money.