I’ve had women that I ask out tell me they want to be friends first and it’s never worked, I’ve started to take that to mean they aren’t interested, but past two times this has happened both women have got mad at me for not wanting to “build something real”. So has this route really worked for anyone here?
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Lol don’t listen to what they tell you they’d want.
The truth is, it wouldn’t work on them. They’d ghost someone that tried to “start off as friends”
“Build something real” girl is just hurt because she’s been played before. Don’t pay a higher price for something someone else did
Volunteering at a place may potentially lead to a job but if my goal is to get a job there then applying for the actual job is the best strategy, not volunteer there and hope one day they turn that into a job offer. Same thing here, if you want a relationship set out with that intention and find like minded people and don’t be friends with someone in the hopes that one day they will want a relationship with you.
No. But it’s more of a symptom anyway. If you ugly, you are gonna have a lot of friends and no lovers. If you pretty you gonna have a lot of lovers and no friends🫡
People do start off as friends sometimes and end up together. If she tells you that though, just take it as a no and keep looking lol
i think it can certainly work if you’re organically friends first.
not if one party is interested and gets told ‘we should be friends’.