Wouldn’t say I’m regular consumer but I did for a bit and during that time I wasn’t as aroused over things I would’ve have been when I basically didn’t watch any porn or masturbate. And maybe I experienced performance issues in the period I was consuming porn.

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  2. No. Masturbating more regularly lessens my desire for sex which is normal. I don’t see that as a negative result though. The need has been met.

    Porn itself neither heightens nor lowers my libido.

  3. No. More often than not- you’re exploring the parts of your sexuality that stand out the most. In real life- most people have a hard time communicating what they want or accepting their sexuality. Porn is more like a window view of your sexual preferences.
    If you are watching Porn video of things you haven’t done in real life … your real sex life can feel bare and lack fulfillment because it does.
    Try communicating your actual wants with your sexual partner.

  4. bro i watch porn all the time and masturbate a lot. when i actually do the deed its better than watching porn. because there is actually somebody there and its not just me while i cry and rub one out.

  5. Yes and no, but mostly no. In a way, I’d actually say it makes me more sensitive to real world arousal and encounters.

    The only way it does “desensitize” me is in the same way drinking water makes you less thirsty for the moment. But it also makes me more in touch with my sexual side and gives me more appreciation for the pleasure that can be derived from it all.

  7. No, in fact I only watch amateur porn and some things that passionate real couples have done in those videos I’ve been able to implement in my sex life with my gf, with lots of communication and consent of course.

    Masturbating a lot, and I mean a lot, May desensitise you temporarily to sex. Just stop for a few days and you’ll be back to normal.

  8. Masturbating involves an ejaculation. This leads to a refractory period where you are less able. The more you masturbate the longer it takes to get back to full readiness. Beyond this unless you have this death grip issue it doesnt make any difference whatsoever.

  10. Depends on the person because if you have a high sex drive porn will not replace real world V.. Contrary; if you aren’t regularly smashing women then porn can be a detriment to your arousal & self-esteem

  11. I think it can sensitise us a bit but having real world encounters can just do that as well. Like before I met my wife seeing naked female body parts was like OMG Breasts and now we have been together for three years and she is naked around the house all the time it is like OMG my wife’s Breasts are amazing!!!. So actually not really much desensitization at all I guess.

  12. Too much of something it’s bad , alcohol, drugs , porn , one of my friend went through a break up with her girlfriend and she told me only her turn her on , I try to ask her why ,she continue with her story till I finally figure, she was the only person she thought it would understand sense she’s so shy very kinky , but she open up to some close friends about her, and she’s feeling wonderful, she’s still watching because she’s very sexual person, she enjoy everything that she sees, I told why she doesn’t go and do her things she likes , she’s doing them nobody needs to know about her life , i said to her got it , I support you

  13. Yes. Porn Isn’t anything like real sex. People don’t look like porn stars and sex isn’t scripted and seamless like edited videos, porn conditions arousal response to scenarios that won’t actually happen irl.

    This is why we see a lot of post asking, “is it normal that my bf watches porn when I give him head?” because real life sexual encounters can’t get him aroused anymore so he has to fantasize on more extreme scenarios to stay in the game.

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