We’ve known each other for 5 years, we initially dated but I broke up with him due to the distance. I tried to get back together but he’s been telling me I need to change for the last 4 years now. I’ve been doing everything I can but it never seems to be enough.
Recently he wanted to start dating other people and I’m really opposed to it, and he said we would get back together if I “changed” in a month.
However I found out that he’s been asking other women out on dates and that just really devastated me because I thought we were getting back together.
I’m considering cutting things off all together, is this the right decision or is there something still there?
Thanks for all your advice in advance.
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There was nothing there the moment he asked you to change, if he doesn’t like who you are, then find someone who does. Sounds to me like he’s just looking for excuses and trying to put the blame back on you.
NEVER stay with someone who wants you to change. That doesn’t mean refusing to make reasonable compromises for each other, but someone who wants you to change who you are is NOT someone you should be with. You need to be able to be your authentic self.