Sooooo i just started seeing this guy and I am not kidding when I say he’s already done more for me in the last few weeks for me than anyone has in my life. We work together but have opposite schedules so we don’t see each other much at work. He always pays when we go out so so so sweet to me I feel beyond lucky. We went out a few days before Valentine’s Day and he bought me TWO BOXES of chocolates which was already above and beyond I was so happy. Then, on the actual day of Valentine’s Day when I was leaving work I saw he left me a full bouquet of red roses and baby’s breath. My jaw was on the floor and I was smiling the whole way home. Like I sad, I feel beyond grateful to have him in my life already.
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But, here’s my question. After all these nice things he’s already done for me I’m starting to feel a bit guilty for not getting him anything. Should I have gotten something for him? Should I get something for the next time I see him as a late VDay gift? He’s so sweet and I want him to feel appreciated like I do but I don’t know if it would be like weird since usually only the guys get stuff for girls on Valentine’s Day. We also aren’t officially dating yet so that also makes me unsure.
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Thanks in advance 🙂
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March 14th is Steak and a Blowjob Day but short of that I would just tell him you feel guilty and why. You don’t have to get him anything. The fact that you feel this way is enough.