Hi Reddit!

I’m a very lucky girl. My boyfriend is absolutely amazing in bed and I’d like to please him in any way possible. He puts so much effort into pleasing me, I’ve never experienced something like this before.

All my life i was convinced I could finish only in one position. Well, last time he made me cum 4 times and now I’m able to finish from oral on a regular basis, which I was convinced was never ever going to happen (I’m 30).
He’s sweet, caring and pays attention to me but also can pull my hair and spank me when I deserve it ( a perfect mix of sweet and dominant).

I was to pay him back. Please give me ideas how can I make him cum so hard that he will pass out and propose right after he comes back to his senses.

Thank you, kind strangers!

9 comments

  1. I don’t think that seeking to make somebody pass out is really something you should pursue. For women your biology has several places of intense pleasure more women are able to have multiple orgasms than men.

    But for guys results like this are usually only obtainable from withholding or edging. If you edge for a week and then stimulate his testicles or prostate while he is about to have an orgasm then yes he will feel like he’s about to pass out from pleasure. But personally speaking, I would rather have consistency than intensity.

    Just do what you are doing and focus on having a good relationship.

  2. You can try teasing him for a very long time. Say, by doing something with your mouth that feels kind of gentle and is deliberately devised so that he cannot get off from it until you decide that he can. (there is a penis anatomy theory thing about that, that can be fun to try. Some types of stimulation will “just” feel good, but will not get him over the edge.)

    You can also make a point of getting him off *as many times as possible*. In a “how many times can I get him to blow in four hours?”-kind of thing.

    It can be interesting to combine the two. First deny him the release, and once he’s had it, insist on him having it again and again and again.

    And if you want to make even more of a point about it, tease him during the entire day that leads up to it, as well.

    Have an oral-competition where you do each other at the same time, and the game is to have five orgasms each. Or five in total, and whoever gets them first gets them. Or do it again and again and again until you both have one of the good ones SIMULTANEOUSLY.

    Have him in you WHILE you give yourself some vibrating attention. Let him FEEL your orgasms, as a way to share them with him. Share many of them, if you both really enjoy it.

    Next time you want to have him in your mouth, insist that he stands up with nothing to hold on to. Then do something reeeeeeeeeeally memorable, so that he gets the brain freeze it is to try to not fall over and really enjoy what you are doing at the same time.

    Ask him if he consents to getting sexual attention in his sleep. (Be deliberately vague.)

    …a few weeks after, when he doesn’t remember as clearly any more that you asked, see if you can figure out a way to get him in you without waking him up. Then enjoy him, gently, until he totally wakes up.

    Or habitually wake him up with your mouth.

    Or just start a habit where you hold him in your hand when you go to sleep.

    Make sure to ambush him whenever he takes a shower.

    Buy one of those bluetooth-controlled vibrators and give him the ability to control it at some time when that can be fun.

    Something like that?

  4. My GF and I love to do doggy and she pleasures me by controlling all movements. Sometimes I close my eyes when this is happening and imagine she’s giving me an awesome blowjob.

  7. I’m sure that everything he’s doing to you is because all that pleasing is what drives him crazy about sex. Now that said..

    Think about how you like the dominance…drives you wild that he’s in control and you know he’s gonna do what he wants to you and it’s all about you…

    Maybe flip it, get a little bossy. It’s YOUR dick now and he’s just gonna stay there and be a good boy and then you go to work.

  8. My husband goes wild for a good penis worship session. Look this up! For us this basically looks like a lengthy, drawn out blow job session but I make an extra effort to really admire his dick whether just lightly stroking, lightly licking and kissing it, slapping my face and tongue with it, etc. I make sure it’s obvious I’m in no rush and am enjoying every second of it. I’ll also occasionally let him feel how wet I get just from enjoying him — I don’t let him do anything to me though! Eventually it transitions into a full-on blow job deep throating (my fav, I try to really hold him in deep as long as I can stand it). He goes wild for this extended worship. If you’re comfortable with it and trust him, you could also let him film it.

    Have fun!

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