I’m 33 and separated with two kids. I’ve been separated for 6 weeks and we’ll be living together until June when we move. Luckily, things are going well and we’re getting along; no nastiness, not messy, just focused on being awesome parents to our kids.
I’m not ready to date in the slightest, but the thought can’t help but come up. I’ve been with my Wife since we were 19. I sincerely doubt my “game” from when I was a teenager is going to work now.
I also feel like I have a lot of baggage; 2 kids, an ex I get along with as well as her family, also she’s active duty military so I’ll be picking up and following her every few years to be with my kids, most of my stories and experiences involve my Wife, COVID along with a few other personal circumstances out of our control over the last few years hit us hard financially so along with losing an income I’ve also gotta deal with fixing my finances in general.
I feel like anyone I meet will run away immediately