Woman on top questions

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1. I think the most important part is for you too find the right position with the right partner.

   If you don’t enjoy it, it’s no big deal. Not everyone enjoy it!

2. >I have questions, what about it do you enjoy?

   I enjoy the view and the way I feel inside my partner at that angle.

   >Also am I bouncing? Am I rocking? I feel like I need a tutorial.

   Many ways to do it, it boils down to how you and your partner are feeling. Sometimes my wife will want me to do the work and other times she’ll rock back and forth and bounce.

   What you’re feeling I’m sure is normal i know my wife was very self conscious first few times we tried that position but now it’s one of her favorite ways to get off.

3. I’m 150lbs with a toned athletic build. My wife is maybe 250-300lbs (I’m not sure. Never asked, never will)

   We try all the things, and if they work, cool. If not, we try something else.

   I like it when she’s on top. It’s a lot more grinding than it is bouncing. I like to grab her ass and bounce it around. I really just like her weight on me in that is very calming to me. I’m dominant in the bedroom, but her weight holding me down calms my body, and we just kiss slowly and passionately while I pulse inside her.

   Thick ladies, let dudes love your thickness.

4. Big girl here.

   Porn bouncing up-and-down is definitely not the way to go. I’m fact, even when I was tiny, it didn’t get me off. Porn uses it it for the camera angles not because it’s how real women (or most men) get off.

   Try planting your hips on him and rubbing yourselves up and down his crotch, tummy, or legs. Also if you google “plus-sized cowgirl, you’ll find some great tutorials.

   Have fun out there!

5. Back in school I knew a large woman who figured out how to maneuver on top so she would get an orgasm every time. She proceeded to lose 40 pounds.

6. Hey, larger woman here too, and don’t believe what you see in porn, bouncing isn’t the way to go, it’s just not all that practical or enjoyable, for me at least, but try grinding, pushing your hips forward and back, and should you enjoy it as well and if you’re concious about the girls bouncing around, have your partner hold and massage your boobs as you do. What I’d also say is go at your own pace, don’t rush it, just enjoy it for what it is and the connection you have in that moment with your partner.

7. Rocking/grinding feel better on clits. Bouncing feels better on dicks.

   (Generally speaking)

   Mixing it up is the best of both worlds for both partners.

   I prefer riding while he’s sitting on the couch, laying on the floor, or sitting on the floor against the wall/bed/on stairs than riding on a bed. I like the resistance I get for better clitoral pressure from a hard surface. Mattresses absorb too much of the movement for me.

   Play around with it and see what fits your two bodies the best.

8. I’ve had several BBW partners. If a guy is asking for you to be ontop it’s because he enjoys looking at all of you. Most likely all the parts you’re self conscious about he finds appealing and arousing.

   More of a rocking. A good partner might put his hands on your hips or lower back to help get the motions in sync.

   If you do reverse cow girl make sure your legs are under his. Almost hooked under. It gives you a little more leverage and control. If you are okay with some anal play let your partner know. It’s a great position to have him in and playing with you.

9. I was with a 200lb girl who was always on top I let her bounce it’s a nice feeling

10. Makes you feel like a king. Also I get to see everything, her face, her breasts, her hips. It’s a mix of grinding and bouncing I would say.