Matched with a guy on Tinder and we’ve been texting for about a month. We made plans to hang out a few weeks ago but he cancelled because he said he had to help his friend with something. Whatever, I believed him. Couple weeks go by, we make plans to go on a date tonight. Yesterday he randomly stopped texting me, so I texted him this morning, nothing. I checked on Instagram, and he blocked me.
What the fuck? We literally texted every day for a month and now that we’re gonna go on a date, you ghost me?
People can be so annoying.
7 comments
Too bad
Welcome to the life of an average guy. Except that’s with almost every girl we talk to
Sorry to hear that. Keep your head up!
If he waited 1 month to ask you out then he wasn’t that interested to begin with, everything more than a week is already suspicious
I think the most important thing is just to be kind to yourself. It hurts but all we can really do is just be thankful for things that happen even when it doesn’t make any sense. You’ll be alright. Just don’t let it get to you. I’m sure you’ve got aspirations in life etc. You’ll get there
I won’t ghost you!…..
This didn’t even happen to me and I feel angry for you. I think they think too highly of themselves treating the situation as if you were going to stalk him or something if he rejected you. Any time someone cancels, that is an answer. Don’t continue to pursue them. I have gotten to the point if that happened to me even if they had a good excuse, I am not pursuing them. People make time for things they are interested in. I hate how when people do this, they know what they are doing and how it will effect them, but justify it to themselves. It’s sociopathic.