Sex talk? How to “Talk” during sex?

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1. Hi there,

   It’s great that you and your girlfriend have talked about the silence during your intimate moments and that you’re both willing to try to communicate more during sex. It can be difficult to find the right words in the moment, so it’s completely understandable that you’re unsure about reciprocating with some sexy talk.

   One approach could be to start with simple and genuine compliments. For example, you could tell your girlfriend how much you enjoy being with her, how attractive you find her, or how much you appreciate her in your life. You could also try to describe how you feel physically and emotionally during sex, using descriptive language to convey your pleasure and excitement.

   Remember that communication is all about practice and finding what works for both of you. It’s okay to feel a bit awkward or unsure at first, but with time and effort, you can build your confidence and find your own style of sexy talk that feels comfortable and authentic.

   Good luck and have fun exploring!

2. Talking during sex is great. I usually start off with , ” are you ok?” or “How are you going?”, and that can lead to my partner asking for an adjustment, or for something different, or a smile/giggle etc. It doesn’t mean it will devolve into dirty talk, just good communication. It’s honestly one of the best parts of sex with a trusted partner.