Hello, fellow redditers,
Been a while since I’ve done a post but I have to ask for some advice about my girlfriend of about 6 months. As some background I (21 m) have been dating my girlfriend(24 f) and we have agreed not to engage in sex until after marriage as she is Christian and I am respecting her decision. We do however makeout and with that comes some huge chemistry. She has mild intellectual disorder and I have aspergers. I am on here to ask about behavior during our makeout sessions. During our makeout session she and I will get super into it but then at the point of climax between us she stops and says that she loves me and that she needs to calm herself down. I’m not sure why she stops as I feel we both were having the time of our lives yet afterwards sure I feel good but also confused. What does this experience mean if any of you all can help?
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In the Christian religion it’s sinful to even lust after a woman (and assumed for women to lust after a man) who you’re not married to. So it’s possible she feels some responsibility to not go too far, or some guilt if this goes against her principles. (Individuals have different ranges of what feels sinful or not sinful to them)
Since she told you she loves you then I wouldn’t worry about it but if you would like to have a less abruptly ended makeout session then maybe you can respectfully ask her what her thoughts are on it. Then decide on some expectations for future interactions that would feel good for both of you.