I (26 F) met a guy (28 M) through Hinge. We have been dating for two weeks already, but he is giving me mixed signals. I’m so confused whether he is interested in getting to know me or not. He takes time to hang out with me after work, knowing that he is pretty busy, but he doesn’t ask me questions and im mostly asking him stuff to get to know him. Texting is even worse. Im always trying to establish a conversation but it’s like im talking to a wall, and it feels one sided.
I don’t know if should talk about this early on or wait a little and have a conversation with him. Should i give it a shot or just move on and keep dating other guys?

TL:DR we have been dating for two weeks but im unsure if he is interested on me or not. He makes time to always hang out with me but doesn’t ask me any personal questions. I always start the conversation and ask him. Should i give him a shot or move on?

12 comments

  1. Perhaps give it a couple of weeks and see if he does show an interest in you – if not, move on. He’s showing you who he is and won’t change for you or anyone else.

  3. Why are you interested in him? He sounds like a dud. Don’t go chasing after some guy you have only been seeing for a couple weeks. He is showing you who he is. He won’t change and most likely will just get worse. This should be the easiest, fun best time. If he is a dud now….save yourself the headache and move on.

  4. My girl.

    Anything other than a straight up YES, is a no.

    There is no such thing as “mixed signals”. He’s not interested. If he was, he would have made a hangout happen.

    Move on, keep dating. You got this.

  5. Is this the only man around? Why would you want to keep spending time with someone who doesn’t show he’s interested in you? Move on.

  7. He is seeing how little effort he has to put in before you put out. Find someone who is interested in you as a person.

  10. I’ve been on plenty of dates like this…even friends dates! Some people just seem to be self absorbed. Either they only really care to hear themselves talk, or they lack the social cues for pleasant conversations. It’s possible they just weren’t interested in learning more about me. Or they wanted to win me over enough to get me into bed. Or it’s just a personality flaw. Either way, does it really matter? I don’t enjoy being in those situations, so I don’t make plans with people who do that. The whys & the hows don’t really matter…what matters is do you like it or not? Obviously you don’t, so there’s no reason to continue.

  11. You guys are grown. If it’s not one hundred percent yes, then it’s one hundred percent no. Don’t play games with grown men.

  12. Sad to say u should move on it seems that he’s not really interested or there is something that he’s not telling u u should move on I’m sure u will find better someone that will be interested getting to know you don’t waste your time

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