Me and my boyfriend like to shower together, we don’t always have sex in the shower maybe 50% of the time.

I’ve noticed though, that he always has like a half-erection in the shower.

Is that a normal reaction to hot water? Or is it because I’m naked in front of him?

Sometimes it’s even before he steps foot in the shower so I’m so confused

18 comments
  1. You have had sex in the shower about 50% of the time. He associates getting in the shower with sex.

  2. Um yeah a hard-on happens when a naked girl shows up nearby, his Johnson needs to prepare for possible breeding activity.

  3. Please don’t flatter yourself. Hot water does make every man hard due to the relaxation of blood vessels down there.

  4. Erections are involuntary. And many things can trigger them. Including anticipation. A guy can try to Homer Simpson it (“Think Unsexy Thoughts”) but it only goes so far.

    Be that as it may, deep down he likely wants to have sex, but for a practical matter cannot.

    As a side note, I find shower sex really awkward. So it’s usually foreplay for me.

  5. Y’all like to shower together and you wonder why he has a boner, enough to ask Reddit? Hahaha. Girl, he’s taking a shower, or about to shower, with something he finds arousing. What’s the issue?

  6. He is in close quarters with a naked woman that he is attracted to, yea it’s perfectly normal.

  7. The heat does help to elongate things a bit. And usually if he has even an inkling of an idea that there might be more on the table that adds to it.

  8. Not surprised. The shower may well have some pleasant associations and if you are going to get in there with him and maybe have sex…

    That would do it for a lot of people.

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