Hi all,
I went on a date with a woman, she is straight to the point.
She is the one who initiated conversation on Instagram and I went with the flow as always … We actually wanted to meet on valentines day, but didn’t work, so we went the other day. (it was only after one day chatting)
I liked the attitude.
Facts:
Date went well 3 hours , some jokes she didn’t get,but still didn’t ruin anything.
She thought she can ask if i do weed or drink and i wouldn’t ask back so she was shocked but eventually answered me.
I did go fast with the car home from the date location because she destabilized me, I don’t know why I felt that way maybe because my jokes weren’t funny to her I don’t know
We do talk on phone now sometimes, she calls..
What is bothering me : I am a funny guy, light headed with the ones I love on the other hand She is serious with me
I am trying to feel her like to take things to the next level
Like saying:
“when will you teach me surfing you seem good at it…”
Things like these
She tells me :why would I? Go take a surfing lesson or who are you to me for me to teach you
I even call her with a cute nickname.. She tells me:
“my name is X” don’t call me that nickname.
*it’s not a curse*
I confronted her, asked her what’s the matter, why she always gives me breaks ? Is she OK, did anything happen in her past? (normally women like these had bad experiences *to my knowledge*)
She tells me this is how she is.
I am afraid to continue this relationship because, Maybe this is how she is in nature? Will she change eventually? Open up to me, when? Where is this line between how light can she get and how serious?
I am finding it hard to assess the situation, still
I always got attracted to strong women, that’s the truth.
I seriously don’t know how to build this relationship.