When you tell your partner he/she is your priority, does it means:
1)You spend most of your times with him/her, but when there are chances to spend times with others priority to you too(families/friends) who you rarely have chance to spend time with, your focus are bonding with them and you tend to neglect him/her even she/he needs you.
Or
2)You didn’t spend that much time with him/her. But when something happened or you are needed, he/she will always be there and choose you first.
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Most 1. I spend a lot of time with my partner, but that is cause we live together and have a kid, but if there is a meet up regardless if I haven’t seen this person for a while or not I would still go. I wouldnt neglect either people. My partner is important, but so are my friends and family.
It really could go both ways. I always say priority as the second but it also doesn’t mean I won’t want to spend time with my partner, it’s not always black and white
A bit of both? I am also a priority to my partner so they wouldn’t expect me to neglect my other relationships unless it was an emergency.