I’m a 39 year old female who is going through the menopause. Sex is painful, I’ve ordered lube to help. However, menopause also makes you over think etc… so a guy I have had two very good dates with, we had sex on the second date, has not really replied to my messages since it has only been just over a day. Does sex hurt the guy’s penis too? Is dating at an older age more likely not going to be heavily texting? Should I be worried that he’s not messaged since? In person he said he likes me and wants to see where it goes and he does make me feel good in person. I was married 20years and very rarely had conversations via text so why when dating especially early on be a thing?!
Basically should I be worried that I had sex with a guy who has not text me back for over 24hours??
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>Does sex hurt the guy’s penis too?
No .. hehe .. it doesn’t really as such
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But woman being dry and not into it .. pulling back etc .. might make guy go “Screw this I can do better”
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That is if he is the kind of guy who apart from actually having options also likes his women over the top horny, which most guys do
You need to chill out. I hope you realize that these question are all coming from a place of insecurity. You don’t need answers to them. You need to stop asking these kinds of questions. Be okay with the fact that dating involves uncertainty. Nothing is for certain. Time will reveal a lot more things. So be patient.
Menopause makes you overthink? Enh. Being an overthinker, makes you overthink.
Sounds like he’s not into you. Don’t have sex that soon if you are going to be upset if they disappear after.
Does sex hurt for men too? Sometimes tbh ime
Menopause at 39?