So over the last 2 weeks in uni, I’ve sort of found myself hanging out with a group of people who are already friends. However, I always feel like I’m not sure of if most of them see me as a friend yet, mainly because my social skills suck and I find myself struggling to contribute to conversations sometimes, but I do try.
My mind will always go blank, making it difficult to start a conversation or contribute to one, and even when I have something to say I struggle to bring myself to say it. This has led to me feeling like I don’t deserve to be in their company since I don’t feel like I contribute enough, yet none of them seem to mind me hanging with them at the very least.
How can I make myself struggle less with this sort of thing?
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The thing that will help the most is time. The more time passes by, the more you get used to it, and the easier it will be.