i dont really know how to put this , i do apologise.
(f20)so ive been seeing someone (m20), we’ve been seeing each other a lot recently and it’s been really fun.
i only recently got off my period and think to have been ovulating since sunday, we have done it nearly everyday since then. i spoke to him about the fact that i am currently ovulating and that there is a high risk of an unwanted pregnancy. in fear, i asked him if he would come with me to a clinic to get rid of it, if i ever was pregnant. he said that he would and that there wasn’t anything to worry about.
yesterday however, he brought it up again and spoke about how he would be over the moon to have a child. so i reminded him that if i was, i wouldn’t keep it. then his whole tone shifted a bit, said i would be killing a being and that he wouldn’t be happy if i discarded it etc.
i won’t give birth because someone wants me to, but i still want him to want to support me even if he doesn’t agree..
should i bring it up in conversation or should i just do what i think is best without his support?
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* do not have sex with that man
He’s going to get you pregnant.
I mean, unless you want to get pregnant, then continue to have sex with him.
How often does he use condoms when having sex with you?
There’s an easy solution to this problem, and it is to use literally any birth control method. You should insist on condoms. If you don’t want to insist, then you need another method of birth control.
IUDs are low-maintenance and foolproof. Or there are plenty of other options.
It sounds like you both want different things. Why would you continue dating him knowing that?
You two are not compatible and something bad is going to happen if you stay together.