hi,
im 18f and got sexually active relatively recently (like 4 months ago) with my boyfriend 20m. we’ve been discussing trying anal and i am up for that but also scared of pain and the messy part of it. can anyone please give tips? on how to maybe introduce it slowly and also all the preparatory matters? many say that since its bum, obviously there will be shit involved, but like how much can u even expect? haha and since many also compare it to the feeling of pooping backward can it happen that u actually poop during that??
my boyfriend is really nice and supportive and tried to reassure me that its nothing that would gross him out and he knows it would be messy and is fine with that, but i’m personally not too fond of the idea of wanting to shit midst sex or him having poop bits on the condom and stuff.
advice appreciated:)
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Condoms, lube, time, patience, practice, tip only for a few days or weeks, relax then enjoy the rod. Just make sure you’re got enough lube, also I would recommend couple edemas if you don’t want any funny business.
Relax and enjoy!
I would suggest practicing on your own first. Small toys, fingers. If that feels nice then you can move on to having him help.