I (26F) met a guy (28,M) through Hinge. We have been dating for two weeks already, but he is giving me mixed signals. I’m so confused whether he is interested in getting to know me or not. He takes time to hang out with me after work, knowing that he is pretty busy, but he doesn’t ask me questions and im mostly asking him stuff to get to know him. Texting is even worse. Im always trying to establish a conversation but it’s like im talking to a wall, and it feels one sided.
I don’t know if should talk about this early on or wait a little and have a conversation with him. Should i give it a shot or just move on and keep dating other guys.
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Go straight for it. Telepathic communication in dating just ruins it at times. Just try be a decent curious human being.
Perhaps you’re just naturally the leader in conversation, and he’s following where you lead.
You can simply start talking about yourself a little and hope he starts asking more, or bail.
Either is fine.
Move on. He is kinda in the relationship and kinda out. You deserve better