I’ve been broken up with my ex of a 5 year relationship for 6 months. She’s been reaching out occasionally, and sometimes I pick up and sometimes I don’t. But this past Saturday night, a few drinks in I decided to call her, and surprisingly she drove out to where I was to see me.
The next day we met up for drinks. During the date, the conversation came up about seeing other people, and I was honest about recently going on a first date with someone else.
She got visibly upset. We paid the bill, and when I tried talking to her about it, she just left.
I can see why she would be hurt, but at the same time we were already broken up. It just sucks that I was be honest and she got upset, even though I don’t think I did anything wrong.
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You are single and can do as you please. You’re mistake was reconnecting with her. You hurt her two times now. Don’t be a jerk and do it again.
Don’t meet up with ur ex again, there’s no point. The relationship ended for a reason and all this will lead to is hurting one another. You are single therefore you do as you please, she’ll be alright just leave each other alone and move on
Wasn’t a subject that should have come up, especially if it was you who initiated it. In a perfect world we could be honest all the time without it upsetting people, but sometimes you just need to accept the reality, she didn’t want to hear about you and other girls, and you easily could have just made joke if she brought it up; “gentleman never tells, but come on, look at me”… something like that.
Now you need to give her space to calm down and decide whether or not she wants to reach back out to you, so don’t make the mistake of blowing up her phone or trying to pull her back in, she will come back of her own accord or she won’t, chasing here will just make things worse.