My wife (27F) and I (29M) have been having a hard time getting her to orgasm. So for a few months now, my wife and I have been having a hard time getting her off. Be it: solo play (her using her fingers, a dildo, or clitoral stimulators), sex (me licking her vagina or penetration), fingering, anal stimulation, nipple play, nothing seems to consistently get her to the finish line. Her libido hasn’t changed at all though. Last Summer we’d have 3 mind blowing rounds a day and she would have a plethora of orgasms. One specialist has suggested it’s just seasonal depression and that it’ll blow over. For her sake, that’s a shit answer. When will it blow over?
Mind you, she has a great sex drive even now it’s just hard to get her to the finish line. Has anyone experienced this before? Any tips?
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How upset about it is she? It could honestly be one of those things that after experiencing frustration a few times, it becomes more psychological with anxiety blocking it
My wife is normally very orgasmic. However Celexa (SSRI) killed her ability to orgasm. Yesterday her shrink switched her to Lexapro in an effort to lessen or eliminate the side effects of the Celexa.
Is she on any psych meds?
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I had this issue for a bit until i realized i was tensing up my body subconsciously during stimulation, and it was keeping me from finishing. Now, If i start taking too long, i make a mental note to relax my body and breathe deeper. Its been helping a lot