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That can hit the male prostate and is very pleasurable. My fiancé rubs that spot while doing a HJ/BJ and it feels amazing for me.
It was referring to stimulating the prostate by pressing against the man’s perineum (area between the scrotum and anus). It can lead to intense orgasms, even when that’s the only thing you’re doing. There are a bunch of guides out there; just search for “prostate massage.”
Yes, I pay attention to his perineum and he cums sooner and harder.
Yep. We don’t do this every time because it is so sensitive for him, but he goes crazy if I use a little pressure underneath and keep holding his balls while he finishes.
I take my spitty finger and run it down his taint to near his ass, back and forth, while I’m blowing him. He definitely likes it.
Yes!
You can externally stimulate the prostate through the perineum( taint as some call it) the area about halfway between the anus and the scrotum. As he becomes aroused, the erectile tissue will swell. You will notice the top half of the perineum goes from being soft to having a more firm bump. This is actually the inner ending of his shaft. Below that you will feel a softer area closer to his anus but above the anus. This is the area you will want to stimulate so they can feel it in their prostate.
Make sure to use lubrication or a whole lot of saliva. This area is sensitive and dry rubbing may really bother your partner.
After you’ve warmed up some lube on your finger tips, apply it gently to the area.
Now you have a few choices on how to stimulate.
First of all- I really don’t suggest giving head and doing prostate stimulation for the first time. This is a sensitive area and will need your full attention the first few times to be sure you’re not slipping them fingers and to be sure you’re on the right spot. I suggest very softly and slowly stroking the penis with your hand ( in whichever way is their preference)
Sit between their legs on your knees while facing them. This will help you get a better view of the perineum and also check their reactions to find their sweet spots.
You can use an extremely powerful wand vibrator and put the wand on the area, then put a little bit of upwards pressure on that area. ( not too hard unless directed otherwise)
By this point you may notice them becoming extremely wet like a fountain. This means you hit the Prostate correctly. If you are stroking their penis at the same time, slow down pretty quickly to only holding the penis after you’ve put the wand on them.
So that you are not stroking the penis and letting the prostate be primarily stimulated. This will allow them the possibility to have a full Prostate orgasm which is said to be similar to full body clitoral orgasms.
They may feel like they need to pee, this is normal. It’s not pee, it’s Prostate fluid. This is what happens with a prostate orgasm.
Not everyone ejaculates from a prostate orgasm, sometimes it is just more a slow stream.
You can also stimulate this area the same way but with the pads of your fingers. Usually using 2 is more helpful for even pressure and area of stimulation. You need to cut all of your nails down to absolutely nothing for this kind of play.
You can put these two fingers gently in the fleshy area on the perineum (above the anus) and lightly put pressure on the area and rub in a circular motion slowly. Be sure none of this is aggressive rubbing or too much pressure unless they ask. Be sure to not bend your fingers to where the nail can touch the skin, this can feel not so great even with short nails.
Some people also prefer the two fingers in the same placement but instead of rubbing- you put light pressure on the area for a few seconds then release, then repeat the process.
Just be sure to talk to your partner before ever attempting any of this.
This needs to throughly discussed beforehand.
Edit: spelling error
Edit 2: anyone with a Prostate – please feel free to correct me at all. This is just what I know from my personal experience and communication with my partner.
I have used a vibrator there when I’ve been giving a blow job. It was definitely an experience for him. He said it felt amazing!
Yes and no. As with everything in life, everyone is different, for some people it can hurt, for others it won’t.
So communicate, try it out, adjust the pressure and strength and so on.
It’s very true, and it does increase the pleasure they get while you’re blowing them. The “taint” is what you’re speaking of.
“The word “taint” refers to the skin that lies between a human’s anus and his or her genitalia. Both genders have taints. The word is slang for the biologically correct term “Perineum,” and therefore is only used in sexual context.”
https://wiki.geneseo.edu/plugins/servlet/mobile?contentId=53020709#content/view/53020709
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Yea it can but for some reason it don’t always feel as good as other times, one day a girl started licking that area and dam it was like a orgasm that kept building and I couldn’t help but moan, another time it did dam near nothing to me lol.
Yes it’s the prostate. If your bf/hubby will allow a finger or toy to massage his prostate during oral he will have a fantastic orgasam
Yes! Try using a small, bullet sized vibrator there! Just listen to his response and follow his comfort level for pressure and speed.
(Edit: spelling)
It is true my wife does it all the time. The pressure is harder the closer I get to cumming
Do it right as he’s about to cum
He will blow all kinds of loads if you do it properly …. It has to do with the prostate I believe
I’ve found that by alternating pressure on it and massaging that point seem to work best
Playing with the balls is nice but don’t over do it plz
You can also run your finger along the area without pushing. Drives him nuts too.