What are signs of an untrustworthy person?

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1. They lie or talk about others behind their backs but smile in that person’s face. They can’t talk responsibility or accountability of their own behaviors.

2. They lack empathy, they don’t respect your boundaries, never hold themselves accountable, and unreliable.

3. -not following through on doing what they said/promised (and even worse, feeling no remorse over that)

   -tackling what they cannot manage to handle (shortsighted)

   -evasive eye behaviour, rarely meeting your gaze (though, could be someone ‘on the spectrum’ and mean nothing)

   -smiling with the mouth only (not the eyes)

4. It has taken me a while – but starting to see it clearer.

   People who gossip about everyone, even their supposed close friends. – if they are doing it about others they doing it about you.

   If you ever see them have a double standard for one set of people compared to others- it indicates the they value people at different levels. One day you may find yourself on the wrong end of that.

5. White lies