How often to you abstain from masturbation to enhance sex with your SO?
I usually crave an orgasm every 2-3 days and can sometimes get a little addicted to having multiple per day, but then I feel I am less explosive during sex with my SO (which is usually twice per week as we don’t cohabitate). I’ve been with men in the past who only want to come with me and don’t masturbate, but this has different implications for men than women. Women can theoretically cum a lot and often I find it easier to cum after I have once already but if I cum by myself the day before, sometimes if I’m tired I’m less interested in sex because the energy has been taken care of.
Does anyone only cum with their SO on purpose and save their sexual energy for them? Or is this more of a special occasions/fun sometimes tease thing for most people?
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If you are looking to have more intense sex, you should try edging before your meet up. Get yourself a little “hidden” clit toy you can wear with your under cloths for the drive over.
Get yourself all worked up.
Why not try scheduling sex to fill in the days where you would normally masturbate?