So I (18m) have been seeing this girl (18F) for a few months and we are going out often. We’re exclusive and getting serious. We’ve kissed and done all the things but we haven’t had sex yet. I’ve had casual sex one time and it was good whatever whatever. I have a 6 inch dick and I’m worried about getting her being able to enjoy sex as much as I do. She’s had two other serious boyfriends whom she has had sex with. Presumably often as they were together for a long time. I guess because I like her a lot I’m worried about her comparing them to me. I am not the best at sex but I want her to finish and be able to enjoy herself. I am looking for some advice on getting her there with my average sized dick. I’ve heard all the things “if she really likes you it doesn’t matter” or “just be confident and enjoy yourself” but if anyone has tips on what I can do with her that would be helpful thanks.
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**STOP WATCHING PORN AND COMPARING YOUR ABOVE AVERAGE DICK TO THEM**
You’ll be just fine and the key to a good, happy, and satisfying sex life has *nothing* to do with your dick size. It’s ALL about communication. What she likes, what you like, what you both dislike what you want to try, etc. Get out of your own head and follow her body language. Foreplay, teasing, build up – all that matters and is just as important as penetrative sex (and many people would say more important).
Foreplay. Foreplay. Foreplay. Foreplay
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It’s honestly probably not your dick alone that’s going to get her there anyway dude, so I wouldn’t worry about that bit. This is a ‘use your words’ classic. You’ll have to talk to her about what she likes and what will do it for her. Sometimes you just gotta experiment until you find something that works for you guys.
If you’re want some general suggestions to get started: oral, obviously. Fingering her has the added benefit of being able to check in verbally to ask her how to change the pressure, tempo, where she’s more sensitive, etc. If her cumming while you’re inside her is important to you, you can lay down and if she’s sitting up while she’s on top you can stimulate her clit either manually or with a vibrator and she can control the depth and speed.
Just work on getting her to cum at all first and then introduce complexity to the circumstance it’s happening under.
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Ignore your penis and her vagina. Go for the clitoris.