Hey guys, hope you’re doing well!
I have been talking to a girl who is virgin, I am not though, I have a pretty high libido which is the opposite of her, once I was talking to female friends and they said that after their first sexual experience they really started desiring sex, is that true? Did you experience it?
EDIT: For those of you who downoted at least explain why.
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Yeah I think there’s a big difference in the typical “sexual awakening” for men and women. Teen boys play with their dicks every night for years, so they don’t have a problem in this department. Women often don’t touch themselves until they’re in their late teens/20s and often we start having sex before we even touch ourselves at all. So it’s not uncommon for a woman to not know anything about sex until she starts having it.
I can tell you if I’ve had a lot of sex, I tend to want more sex. If we’ve had a drier spell, my mind is often elsewhere. Women are all different, but that’s how it tends to work for me.
I think it depends on the experience. Mine wasn’t traumatic or bad, just not what I thought it’d be. Like it didn’t feel good at all, and I think I just did it to get it over with honestly. We did it one more time, to see if it was any more enjoyable…nope. I didn’t have sex again for 2 years.
My first kinky GF sent my libido into orbit, this was a decade after I started having sex.
My first sexual experience made me wonder if everything was okay with me, because I didn’t feel anything.
If the sex is good it might increase it. I wouldn’t bank on it tho, there are plenty of non virgins with low sex drives. It just varies from person to person.
No change whatsoever for me. But my first time was uninspiring.
I had no idea. My first 3 years sex was unpleasant I thought this is what it’s supposed to be
of course i started desiring sex much more since i lost my virginity, however i started touching myself much less, cause it doesn’t feel as satisfying as sex anymore
It increased a lot when I lost my virginity to the point where he couldn’t keep up the next time we were with each other and did it about 6 times in one night
I know it’s hard but take it SLOW! I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend. We slept together every night for 2 months before we ever had sex. Obviously not ideal for him. I had almost no experience I had never even given or received head only making out & hand stuff. When we first had sex it REALLY hurt me & I was not super eager to try again. We gave it a few days or a week and it was PERFECT. ever since then, we have been having sex like twice a day, sometimes more. So don’t expect the first time to magically change everything. Take things slow and focus on her pleasure so shes motivated to keep trying new things and wants to engage more often.
Didn’t change. I had sex *because* I had a high libido and was too impatient to wait anymore.
That said, I was masturbating a lot younger than most girls. Like, before I even knew what I was doing. So I think I’m an outlier in this regard.
I desired sex less and less with someone I wasn’t attracted to for four years and then had someone I was attracted to and now I wish we could have sex
For me, yes. I wasn’t interested in sex at all. Then I started dating a guy who I really, really liked. Perhaps loved. Once we had sex, I definitely wanted sex with him often. I wasn’t shy about my desire for him.
I wanted sex all the time after I started having it, but…. I always wanted it before I started having sex. Could be a miss match if she doesn’t have a higher drive before it starts.